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Bitter Upshot of Modern Family (Excerpt)

By Wenne Madyt Dengs, South Sudan

July 13, 2015 (SSB)  —-  It sounds strange now in new African families as there are changes which make it difficult for husband and wife to in conformity with cultural norms as modernization and civilization are making it poles apart.

However, in context with Africa traditional society; a family used to have norms which were derived from societal related customs. Neither wife nor husband remains detached from the eminent negative repercussion of the modern era of the family’s living standards.

Voice of a wife

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My husband comes home late

He is always attending meetings at mid-night

He is a man whose working hours never end

He works for nearly twenty four hours

I fear what he is doing to me

The man of my age

He is educated to eradicate our family

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My husband comes home late

Oh my husband,

He doesn’t know his age

He assumes to be either young or old

He wears jeans

With his five cell phones; he doesn’t have time to talk with his wife

Hello, hello,

Who are you?

That’s how he answers my calls

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My husband comes home late

The husband of my heart

He never eats at home

When he is given meal;

He is either tired or no appetite

Oh my husband, people who work hard also eat!

A man must eat in his house

A man must eat his muscle

Sometimes you take a spoonful in pretense

I am your counterpart

I know what you are doing

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My husband comes home late

He moves like a snake

He doesn’t see well

He smell rotten though lovely

He fails to roll his tongue

I can’t hear any word

He sleeps like his mother

No chatting at night!

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My husband comes home late

He talks with another person on phone

A person with a click sound

A person that he answers NO Problem

A person that he always says to meet in a hotel

Oh my husband,

He doesn’t care about his wife

He doesn’t care about his children

Voice of a husband

Oh my dear wife,

The wife that I married with undisputable dowries

The wife that I poured my wealth

She has become my headache

She wears my attires

We are either both males or females

I doubt her current gender

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Oh my dear wife,

She slim and slender

She is black-reddish in colored woman

She has turn her beauty to be her duty

She doesn’t know kitchen

She doesn’t know river

She just knows plates and bridges

Oh my dear wife

You only want to give me two children

You only want to remain young forever

Remember my cows;

The amount of money I added;

To satisfy your desperate family

You have to give me more children

I want to be like my grandpa

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Oh my dear wife,

You are either married or searching

You still have outing days

Even when I am not ready

You can just do alone

 –

It continues

 

Book Title: Bitter Upshot of Modern Family

Author: Wenne Madyt Dengs

Status: Unpublished

Category: Play/Poetry

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